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Vicki's Story
My name is Vicki Carey, and in 1995 I was involved in a serious car
accident that took the life of my first child, Tyler Jonathan (T.J.).
I was in critical condition awaiting surgery when I was told the
agonizing prognosis from Childrens Hospital Los Angeles: that T.J.
was pronounced clinically brain dead.
My husband and I were compassionately told that even though T.J.
was only one month old, that there were two other babies (each two
months old) at the hospital that were themselves within days of
dying if they did not receive heart and lung transplants. For my
husband and I, the decision to have T.J. be a donor clearly stood
out as being the right "the only" thing to do, especially
if it meant giving the families of these babies hope, and possibly
stopping them from having to face this terrible nightmare!
T.J.'s legacy includes Taylor Williams and Joshua Diaz, who
will be turning eight years old in just ten days! All three of our
families decided to meet, and that emotional experience is difficult
to put into words. We continue to keep in touch, and all of us have
shared our experiences to help others make informed decisions about
organ and tissue donation.
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