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Dr. Daw Khin Myint
"This last gift" is
an everlasting testament of her character
Our beloved mother Khin was a woman with
great talent, courage, dignity, compassion, and generosity. Her journey
of life began on August 30, 1943. As a young girl, she attended all
public schools in Burma, a former British commonwealth country, and
actively participated in numerous athletic activities. She excelled
in school and had a profound interest in medicine. When it came time
for her to decide what career to pursue, she was not a bit fazed to
enter a profession that was predominantly male back in the early ‘60s.
Needless to say that she did not follow the traditional path of becoming
a school-teacher as her family had wished.
After receiving her doctorate degree in medicine, she married my father
to start a family and set up a medical clinic in a relatively underserved
community. She selflessly gave her services and resources to the poor
and to people of non-profit religious institutions regardless of their
faith. At the missionary nearby, she was the only female physician
for them to turn to for any medical needs. She enjoyed what she did
and was compassionate towards everyone she came in contact with.
One evening in August of 2002, I was on the phone with Mom. As usual,
she asked about my well-being and we chatted for over an hour about
the weather, her potted plants, and her most recent activities. Everything
was normal and we hung up. Little did she, I or anyone know that that
was going to be our last conversation between us. A few hours after
we talked, I received a call from my sister that my mother had been
hospitalized and that she was critically ill. When I got to the bedside,
even though the doctors had said she would not wake up again, it seemed
as though she was just sleeping. She had multiple brain aneurysm ruptures
and the bleeding had done extensive damage to the brain that she was
no longer responsive to any of the clinical tests.
Those hours spent waiting at the hospital for the second neurosurgeon's
analysis were very difficult. We prayed and hoped that she'd
be able to come home with us should the second opinion be different.
After long hours of agonizing over her condition, we heard the much-feared
confirming results. Everything came crushing down including, our sanity,
conscience and souls.
We were approached by an advocate from OneLegacy and briefed about
consideration for donating her organs. The idea of having a chance
to prolong, or even save, someone else's life really appealed
our hearts even though we didn't want to take Mom off the life-support,
especially not on the day before her 59th birthday. We asked ourselves
what Mom would have wished to have done with her organs. There is
no doubt that she had been a giver all her life, and in every single
account of her givings, she never expected anything in return. After
gathering our strength and judgment as much as we could, we consented
for procurement of some of her organs. Her liver was the first organ
that came to our thoughts since that was one much needed by our late
father. We wanted someone's father, husband, wife, mother, daughter
or son to have more time to spend with their loved ones.
The following day we said our final good-byes to Mom before the surgery.
Yes, it was very painful for us to let her go on her birthday and
still is. But along with these indelible memories is that someone
got a chance to live because of Mom. As a physician, she had cared
for so many people in her life and this last gift she made is an everlasting
testament of her character.
In memory Dr. Daw Khin Myint
By the surviving family members. |
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